We have all participated in talks where the topic associated with adultery is talked about and fairly recently I had this kind of chat with a close friend who was in fact indicating to me that her hubby seemed to be utilising her charge card to pay for chitchats with an adult phone company and that the idea that he was spending her cash to pay for phone intimacies was basically what had in fact distressed her “At least these were low cost phone sex calls” my friend finally stated concerning all those phonesex chats he had been savoring behind her back, as if the fact that he at the very least had the good sense to select women who offered their particular intimate sex by phone services for cheap was to be enthused about! I asked if that was the sole reason she was upset about, let’s be honest, if perhaps my own partner was the one enjoying sexual private sexual discussions with other females, I believe I would have gotten furious about the whole thing!
“You know” she finally asserted … “Not really. Perhaps in the early stages I guess I was, After all he was contacting various other females in order to fulfill needs that I am obviously not fulfilling myself, yet I came to the conclusion there was really no harm done. He was calling strangers he had never seen in his life, to act on fantasy urges which i may be not comfortable with and I guess I did feel embarrassed, yet also willing to put in context.
All things considered, you and I go out on ladies nights ever week, and you know what we talk about sometimes and how sexually charged our gossips can get, so what’s the difference?”
I was really intrigued by her reaction, or lack thereof. This was my friend. My dear childhood friend. The person who covered for me when I sneaked out one day to go out on a date with a guy my parents didn’t approve of. The girl who had her fist kiss on prom day. And there she was being so open minded. The way she had rationalized the event was so underwhelming, as if it was no big deal, after all, all he ever did was to talk dirty with women over the phone and I, more than anyone else, knew all about the power of suggestions and how words can be so enticing. “He is having an affair with a fantasy” she added and she was right.
After all, is there any husband out there who doesn’t watch porn whenever he can, alone, without the company of his lady? “Bob (my husband) watches porn and I’ve caught him many times”! I had to admit. “I can understand your point of view though since when that happen, I was angry with him, not because he was watching porn, but because he was doing it without me”!
And just as I was going to develop my chain of thoughts further, my friend cut me off:
“As I was dealing with the fact that it was my credit card that he had used to pay for these adult phone calls, it dawned on me that I might have enjoyed it myself. Why not? We’ve always had a lot of fun in the bedroom, if you know what I mean, so why shouldn’t I join in the fun!”
To say that I was surprised would be the understatement of the year. I was besides myself with incredulity! To think that this was the same girl who “saved” herself for her husband, who had a first French kiss when she was nearly 18. And there she was telling that the idea of having some sort of intimacy, be it by phone or virtual, with her husband and some other virtual person was not only intriguing, but she was looking forward to it!
“Don’t tell me that you did!” I asked her!
“Indeed I did!” She told me with the naughtiest smile I had ever seen on her pretty fact. “And let me tell you something: You should try it! It’s quite delicious!”